How do you know if you’re making the rite the decision?

How do you know if you’re making the rite the decision?

Like when you speak to someone and they make you question everything about a possible relationship you may have thought of having with them. Well is that bad thing when that happens. Their age becomes a factor because you both think so differently in many situations and you may be ready for more than they are .the question is will this work. You feel like you’re willing to do whatever it may take to have a relationship with this person even moving away to be with them and then they say something that totally makes you think maybe this would be a bad idea more for you because you’re taking the chance by picking up in leaving .why is there one always more vulnerable than the other. Or one is in a fairytale and the other is too realistic than the other. The truth maybe that our lives go on with or without each other. Ever think what the fuck am I doing, thinking or saying .sometimes it’s because you have not been in a relationship for a long time and you want to be in something so bad .How about when your approached about all these job offers that are coming your way and you keep saying no because you may move away to be with this prospect .It could be so confusing and make you just want give up totally stay single don’t leave your comfort for a possibility.