What Do Gay Man Really Want In There Partner ?

Is It so difficult to find a gay man without wanting them to be perfect?

Masculine if I here that word again to describe the man Im going to blow a vein in my,we are gay for crying out loud.We are gay therefore we all have some fem in us WTF. Perfect body is another ,no stomach not to fat ,fuck that I love to eat and I do have a bit of a belly so what that is me .why do gays have to have so much perfection in there men?Im not perfect but I am handsome and a good catch . Oh and the age thing no one under 30 wtf  is up with that we all get older age dont mean shit men are men age is only a problem when it has do with maturity .I dont  feel like I need to change to be in a relationship or to make someone else happy .What happen to attraction and sexual chemistry?I asked the ?what is that we really want as gay men in our partners?Please comment and give me your perception on this subject.